Hmmm, seems like a unusual topic to blog on. Yesterday, a friend was telling me about her friend's boyfriend who was cheating on her. Apparently, the boyfriend was married before and the friend was a third party. Seems very drama like but unfortunately it happens in real life too. My friend was upset cos she helped them to be together at some point as well. Now, she feels kind of stupid for having helped the guy.
Actually, I am not sure why I am talking about this but listening to my friend and seeing her upset over this issue sort of got to me as well I guess. The problem with such issues is that there should never have been a start of a relationship since the guy is married. But the bigger problem is how to convince the girl to quit since it involves the emotions so much. I have learnt my lesson first hand through my relationship with J that emotions definitely defy logic and beats it hands down. So one of the hardest battle to fight in life to me is the emo battle.
Back to my story. After some time, the girl called to tell my friend that it is over (i.e the relationship between her and that joker is over). My first question to my friend was "is it really over?" My friend agreed with me. Somehow, we were not too convinced that the girl will just step out of the relationship like that. Sadly, for some (maybe even most), chances are that they will head straight into the relationship after the man does some 'damage control'. Sad but true. Conclusions? 1) Never get involved with a married man (or woman for that matter). 2) Emotions could be your best friend, or your worst enemy. 3) I need to get back to work......
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